Comments on: The Dating Entrance Exam http://gradtao.com/2010/04/12/itsnotyouitsme/ Finding The Way as we habituate to the feeling of drowning Sun, 09 Aug 2015 00:16:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.38 By: Jung http://gradtao.com/2010/04/12/itsnotyouitsme/comment-page-1/#comment-13517 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 05:09:37 +0000 http://pixie658.wordpress.com/?p=810#comment-13517 […] what’s with the sspirrue? It’s because you formed a set of expectations about what he was “supposed to” sound like from the get go. Now think of that happening […]   

]]> By: Krysten http://gradtao.com/2010/04/12/itsnotyouitsme/comment-page-1/#comment-316 Sun, 18 Apr 2010 21:15:15 +0000 http://pixie658.wordpress.com/?p=810#comment-316 LOVE this! I wish I had had these when I was still making my dating rounds. They would have made life SOOOO much easier!

]]> By: Doniree http://gradtao.com/2010/04/12/itsnotyouitsme/comment-page-1/#comment-315 Fri, 16 Apr 2010 00:43:44 +0000 http://pixie658.wordpress.com/?p=810#comment-315 I LOVE this:

“A lot of this gets into cognitive blueprints and neurological wiring. We have a particular pattern we follow, a particular schema for what a relationship is supposed to be like, and it truly takes rewiring our brain to make changes. ”

And while that’s SO simple, I never really thought of it that way or considered that, but I think you’re right. Perhaps that’s why with the end of any relationship, we come away thinking, “well, I learned THIS,” etc.

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