http://gradtao.com/2010/08/29/shoulding/ Finding The Way as we habituate to the feeling of drowning Sun, 09 Aug 2015 00:16:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.38 http://gradtao.com/2010/08/29/shoulding/comment-page-1/#comment-165044 Sun, 09 Aug 2015 00:16:20 +0000 http://gradtao.com/?p=1984#comment-165044 […] I’ve told myself I should be doing–enter cognitive dissonance and guilt. (Do note that shoulding is an actual psychological term to describe a type of cognitive distortion or false […]

]]> http://gradtao.com/2010/08/29/shoulding/comment-page-1/#comment-571 Thu, 02 Sep 2010 00:53:09 +0000 http://gradtao.com/?p=1984#comment-571 I also have hard time deciding if I’m doing something to please someone else or if I’m doing it because it is healthy and right for me. It’s tough because I play so many roles with school and work and in my family. Sometimes I forget to out my needs and desires first. Glad you identified with the post.

]]> http://gradtao.com/2010/08/29/shoulding/comment-page-1/#comment-570 Thu, 02 Sep 2010 00:51:34 +0000 http://gradtao.com/?p=1984#comment-570 You are so right about it taking the fun out of our goals. Thanks for reading, too!

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